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May 13, 2026
Every fear-based ad you've ever seen. Every "limited time offer" that made your stomach drop. Every marketing message that made you feel like you weren't enough without whatever they were selling.
That all traces back to one man.
His name was Edward Bernays. He literally wrote a book called Propaganda. And he is, without question, the godfather of modern marketing.
But here's what nobody talks about: there was another man working at the exact same time in history who had a completely different vision of what human beings are and what motivates them. His name was Alfred Adler. And if marketing had been built on his ideas instead of Bernays'... we'd be living in a very different world.
I want to show you the difference. Because it matters, for every attorney, every business owner, and every person who's ever felt in their gut that marketing is something dirty.
Spoiler: your gut is right. But it doesn't have to be.
Edward Bernays was Sigmund Freud's literal nephew. He took his uncle's ideas about the unconscious mind and weaponized them for commerce.
Before Bernays, advertising was informational. "Here's what we sell. Here's what it costs." Simple. Honest. Boring, maybe, but honest.
Bernays changed everything. He said: Don't sell the product, sell the feeling. Don't address the rational mind, target the unconscious. Find the wound. Press on it. Profit.
He ran propaganda campaigns for the U.S. government during World War I. When the war ended, he asked himself: "If I can convince an entire nation to go to war, what else can I convince them to do?" And he rebranded propaganda as "public relations."
He wasn't subtle about it either. He wrote, and I'm paraphrasing, that "the conscious and intelligent manipulation of the masses is an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country." He wasn't hiding it. He was proud of it.
His greatest hits:
He got women to smoke cigarettes by staging a march where models lit up what he called "torches of freedom", linking smoking to women's liberation. He didn't care about freedom. He cared about doubling the tobacco market. He made bacon and eggs, "the American breakfast," by paying doctors to recommend heavy breakfasts, manufactured authority at scale. He overthrew a democratically elected government in Guatemala on behalf of the United Fruit Company by running a PR campaign calling it a communist threat.
The man reshaped nations. Literally.
And the core philosophy underneath all of it? People are irrational. They can't be trusted with their own decisions. An enlightened elite needs to engineer consent for the public's "own good."
That's the root. That's the foundation that modern marketing was built on.
Every time a marketing agency uses fear to lock a client into a contract, they don't understand that's Bernays. Every time they manufacture complexity so you feel like you can't do it without them, that's Bernays. Every time they exploit your insecurity instead of building your confidence, that's Bernays. The playbook has been running for a hundred years, and most people in the marketing industry have never even heard his name.
Now let me tell you about the man history forgot, at least when it comes to marketing.
Alfred Adler was a contemporary of Freud. Same era, same city, Vienna. He was actually part of Freud's inner circle until he broke away, because he fundamentally disagreed with Freud's view of human nature.
Where Freud, and by extension Bernays, saw humans as driven by unconscious, irrational drives, basically animals you could steer with the right stimulus, Adler saw something completely different.
Adler believed people are goal-directed. We're not just reacting to hidden impulses; we're moving toward something. Purpose. Contribution. Significance. The fundamental human motivation, in Adler's view, isn't fear or lust; it's belonging. The desire to be part of something and to matter within it.
Yes, people feel inferior sometimes. That's real. But Adler said the healthy response to that feeling isn't to be manipulated through it, it's to be encouraged through it. He literally built his entire therapeutic model around encouragement.
He even coined a German word for it, Gemeinschaftsgefühl, which roughly translates to the sense that your well-being is tied to the well-being of your community. The measure of a healthy person, to Adler, was their capacity to contribute to others.
Adler looked at the same human beings Bernays looked at and saw something completely different. Where Bernays saw a herd to be managed, Adler saw a community to be encouraged. Where Bernays saw weakness to exploit, Adler saw potential to develop.
Adler's ideas were huge, in education, in parenting, in therapy. But they never made it into marketing. Why? Because Bernays' model was more profitable in the short term. Fear sells faster than encouragement. Manipulation scales faster than trust.
At least... it used to.
Here's why this matters if you're an attorney: you have been trained, by a century of Bernays' thinking, to believe that marketing is manipulation. And you're right. The marketing you've been sold is manipulation.
But that's not because marketing has to be that way. It's because it was built that way. On purpose. By a guy who literally called it propaganda.
Look at how legacy legal marketing firms operate today. FindLaw. Scorpion. Martindale. They run on the Bernays playbook without exception. They manufacture complexity so you feel dependent. They lock you into contracts and own your website. They don't want you to understand what they're doing because if you did, you'd realize you don't need them. And they market to you through fear: "your competitors are outranking you," "you're losing clients to the firm down the street," "you can't afford NOT to spend $5,000 a month with us."
Find the wound. Press on it. That's Bernays. Every time.
Now imagine an Adler model applied to the same industry. What if your marketing started from the premise that your clients are intelligent, goal-directed people looking for someone they can trust? What if instead of manufacturing authority through tricks, you built real authority by letting the attorney speak in their own authentic voice? What if instead of creating dependency, you built something the attorney actually owns, something that compounds over time and goes with them if they ever leave?
What if the measure of great marketing was the same as Adler's measure of a healthy person's contribution to the community?
Bernays says find their wound and press on it. Adler says find their aspiration and walk alongside them. One creates a customer. The other creates a relationship. And in 2026, people can smell the difference from a mile away.
There's a reason this resonates so deeply with people of faith, and I want to be direct about it.
Bernays' model is fundamentally a model of power over. It assumes a ruling class that engineers consent. It treats people as means to an end, resources to be extracted, managed, and eventually discarded. Strip away the business language, and it's the same pattern scripture warns about over and over. The strong exploiting the weak. The clever deceiving the simple. The powerful extracting from the vulnerable.
Isaiah 2:4 says they shall beat their swords into plowshares. Here's what's wild: Bernays literally took war propaganda, actual psychological weapons, and turned them into marketing tools. But he didn't beat them into plowshares. He turned them into shinier swords. He kept the manipulation; he just changed the target from enemy nations to American consumers.
The real swords-into-plowshares move is taking these same powerful communication tools, the ability to reach people at scale, to craft compelling messages, to build brands, and using them to tell the truth. To serve. To build up instead of tear down.
Marketing built on truth and love isn't weak marketing. It's marketing that doesn't need a contract to keep clients, because they stay. It's marketing that compounds because authenticity compounds. It's marketing that lets you sleep at night.
If you're an attorney or a business owner and you've felt in your gut that something is wrong with how marketing works, trust that instinct. You're not wrong.
The system was designed by a man who believed you were too irrational to make your own decisions. A man who saw your community as a herd to be managed and your insecurities as levers to be pulled.
You're not a herd. Your clients aren't cattle. And the attorneys I work with aren't looking for someone to manage them; they're looking for someone who actually believes in them.
That's what we're building at Honorable Marketing. An Adler model in a Bernays world. Authentic voice, real authority, systems you own, marketing that serves your community instead of exploiting it.
It's slower. It's more honest. It requires you to show up as yourself.
But it works. And it lasts.
If that resonates, let's talk.
